We Get By With a Little Help From Our Friends
Big Sur, California To me, cruising always meant quiet reflection and independence. In the most remote parts of British Columbia and Alaska, Dave and I would often go days without seeing other humans. As an introvert, I didn't mind. Quiet was my paradise away from the bustle of a big city and a social career. But we knew the California Coast would be different. Here, sailboats often meet up and explore ports together. And while Dave was excited about the social opportunities, I was a little hesitant. What if anchorages feel crowded? What if we don't find our people? What if it doesn't feel like cruising? Change is hard. We are from the land of the Seattle Freeze after all, and that freeze comforts frozen people like me. But here's the thing: the sailing-cruising community is rad. And bear with me because of course I'm generalizing. Sailors are welcoming. They're open to new experiences with new friends. Most seem to get into cruising to live authenticall